Showing posts with label decor. Show all posts
Showing posts with label decor. Show all posts

3/19/2026

"Manifesting" through Designing my next Aparthome

 Hapartment?

I truly enjoy moving every few years & by now we know

Home Ownership does not = Success or Contentment.

I envision:

TWO ROOMS (+ Kitchen + Bath + small Outdoor space)

ONE SPACIOUS, ONE COZIER.

THE SPACIOUS ONE FOR WORK.

THE COZY ONE FOR SLEEPING + FITNESS / MENTAL WELLNESS.


BEDROOM:




There is a trend in home decor imagery for most ALL of it to feature super High ceilings. 

I am not seeking this in my Bedroom.



I would prefer a snugger bed area than most of these images, as above.



And not so bohemian either. Just very comfy & feminine.

But not cluttered.



I am open to taking a space not typically residential & trying to make it homey.




I think Large Art will help. And drapery.




Maybe by defining the sleeping quarters with a canopy.







FITNESS / MENTAL WELLNESS ZONE:

Depending on the coziness / size of the room, this area could literally be 
a plush rug with some floor pillows on it facing a window or piece of art.















I also want to have large-scale print or emblems added onto curtain panels, or a tapestry...



textile art


I am feeling a 1960s vibe now


wall rug by RahmancarpetArt




THE SPACIOUS ROOM FOR WORK:
obviously this is a lot more complex of a space & feels strangely secret for me.
Maybe I'll share the real one once it's done.


But I do have some dream BATHROOMS, the layout of which are of
UTMOST importance to me, a luxuriating bather since birth:

I like when the tub feels like a piece of furniture. 
Not furniture that imposes on the space, not claw-foot,
but furniture that Helps you use it. 



And that's what this tiled drop-in tub does. 
It helps bathers not have to grab everything to bring it to the bath every time.
(candles, books, speaker etc)





I am also a big fan of the half-wall in a bathroom. Do you know who installs toilets within SIGHT of a tub? People who hate baths. You cannot properly enjoy a bath with a toilet noticeably 2' from your mouth. Blech.



So, yes to drop-in or undermount tubs with large, flat surrounds.
Yes to half-walls.

And Yes to make-up vanities in the bathroom:



Look how cute this is: They installed the sink into a dresser & you can sit at it like a makeup table:




But you would stub your toes on the chair : (





KITCHENS:

I don't care a whole lot about kitchens. Though I do prefer cozy & for them to feel half like a living room. 
Let me show you what I mean..




I'm sure I've done a post about this before, but making a kitchen feel like a living room involves making it feel less sterile & more homey by adding elements typically seen in Living Rooms. 
I was first introduced to this concept by interior decorator / stylist Mary Elizabeth in 2017. 
Watch that video of hers' here
(She also has schnauzers, if you needed a push)




To achieve this "Living Room Look":

- Put Lamps on kitchen counters / dinette tables
- Hang framed Art on backsplashes / inside cabinets / on backs of shelves behind dishes





- put Sconce wall lighting in kitchen



- Replace switchplates w/ decidedly Non-kitchen plates, i.e. more refined / decorative





- Put legit living / bedroom Furniture in a kitchen, like a dining table or Wardrobe










- Keep kitchen items in Baskets / decorative Bowls instead of kitchen tins or plastic bins




- Hang oversized art in the kitchen




- Hang non-traditional fixtures / chandeliers in the kitchen











- use Upholstered furniture in kitchens






- Long curtains in kitchen






- Tablecloth on Kitchen table





- Faux fireplace / Mantle in kitchen





- use Hide rugs in kitchen







and Last but not least, I am envisioning a Patio of some kind in this future Hapartment

PATIO


I immediately thought of a Homeworthy video of a London home with a medium-sized back patio & I somehow re-discovered it here. The homeowner is Rosalind Miller.
Screenshots below



It doesn't even look that comfortable per se, but the warmth, repurposed materials, & private feeling is what I would like to emulate, even on a tiny scale.












+ some other patio inspo:









I will need to grow some vines most likely. A learn how to maintain hedges / carve topiaries.





I suppose if the ground was really horrid I could cover it in pebbles.





& if the yard is absolutely not private, I could build a small trellis & hang water-repellant curtains.
I think the key is to use worn-looking materials.





Thank you for joining me & 
Wish me Luck!













































1/17/2026

Updated Farmhouse Style ideas *2026*

 





Cathedral window in home, to be used sparingly as an accent window. I think these work best in Living rooms rather than kitchens

(I am anti converting churches into homes, so this would be for a new build)










Chickenwire or mesh cabinet doors








Distressed oak dining chairs








Paned / old Window partitions












Bringing New aspects into this style!:
Plaid sofas 
(F&%k timeless)





this one is: Canora Grey's Creative Checkered Sofa (on Wayfair)




Chris Loves Julia - Wallace Chocolate Pouf




And deliberately "deconstructed" looking furniture vs. frayed:























Dundee Armchair on 1st Dibs











Restoration Hardware did a collection inspired by this very idea back in 2012:
The Deconstructed 19th c. English Wing Chair and matching French Napoleonic Ottoman in burlap from it are below:











above photos from Here












Something similar from now:




One Allium Way - Gracia Upholstered Barrel Chair in Hemp Linen










Distressed balustrades / pillars 







Martha Stewart - Ellen Striped Upholstered Ottoman





Tiled Bathtub

What I think is cool for this now:
- Starched / Beefed up Canvas dropcloth floor coverings (i.e. Not moving underfoot)
- Painted pale patterns on floors







- Incorporating Glass material into this decor style


Tonin - Arturo Side Table






- Incorporating Lit / illuminated furniture mimicking the "glow" of the farmhouse versus the typical 'coolness' of the whitewashed modern farmhouse vibe






Ios End Table With Light

I think when you add slightly Modern elements to the Farmhouse space, it pushes the vibe farther away from Shabby chic or French Country, which is good for people who were once fans of those styles but have grown weary of their more extreme rustic, austere, or frilly details.



Choose between Monolite Ipergres® ceramic or a recyclable polyethylene layer that contains a warm LED light. Includes a white LED that is charged with an included 120V standard plug.

*I realize these are both intended for outdoors but who cares



There is also the Earthenware illuminated sculptures route:








Guy Bareff - Pair of Illuminated Side Tables, 2014

I could not resist including this story posted by the above sculptor about one of his pieces: 
"This piece changed my life, and it's quite a story! It was the first one I made, in '67, in plaster cast on wire mesh, as a Christmas gift for my wife. It was her reaction, and those of our friends, that inspired me to make others (in clay this time), which led to an exhibition in '69... and I haven't stopped since.
But, due to financial difficulties, it was sold during the exhibition, and it was hard to part with it.
Two years ago, 54 years later, it resurfaced at an antique shop in L'Isle-sur-la-Sorgue, and I bought it back and gave it to my ex-wife for her 80th birthday.
An old wound was healed..." Link to post




Bisque Traders - Mayangi Clay Wall Sconce



What I'm including now:
- Canvas dropcloth floor coverings (weighted)
- Painted pale patterns on floors
- Incorporating Glass material
- Incorporating illuminated furniture
- Earthenware illuminated sculptures 


What I'm leaving out:
- plates displayed on walls
- curtained vanities or kitchen cabinets
- large words or letters decor
- anything too aristocratic, like gilded anything or tufted things
- anything that pushes it over into Grandma Country or Pioneer, 
i.e. doilies / macrame, frilly curtains, any displayed tools, excessive wicker, floral anything.