I don't know why it should be so difficult.
It's just clothing & hair & makeup, right?
Some women who inspire me w/ their super-feminine costumes:
Zahia Dehar
I've always loved this picture:
Jessica Rabbit
Christian Dior - prefall 2009
Very Vertigo
Courtney Love
Madonna 1995 Versace campaign
Mugler - spring 2020
Versus - fall 2018
Versus - fall 2003